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But as women went out to gather food, they slept with other men, creating an insurance policy to have someone who would help rear children and provide resources should their mate die."Women who slept around collected more meat, protection, and resources from their lovers," Fisher says."They are on a sinking ship and use it as a life raft because they don't want to just jump into the cold water," Reilly says.She also sees some women have affairs during periods of vulnerability or life change, like when a child goes off to college or after a job loss.There are many reasons for infidelity such as revenge, boredom, the thrill of sexual novelty, sexual addiction.But experts say that a large majority of the time, motivations differ by gender, with men searching for more sex or attention and women looking to fill an emotional void.After a business trip with a friend turned romantic, she began a long-term affair, a path she admits she was likely on anyway as her marriage dissolved.Using another partner to transition out of a bad marriage is one of the common reasons women have affairs.
Reilly says her clinical experience has shown that affairs are almost always caused by problems in the marriage.
"You feel the loss of your dreams and hopes and how you thought things would turn out," Diane says.